I am so into singing now...

Some of the songs I have to take down their URL before i forget...

Project... er.... Capturing the Moments

I had been doing something for the whole long weekend... Converting all my old photos to digital.And I found some pretty amazing pictures, some of which forgotten that they exist! haha.. Here's one for the record:


This was me when I am prob a year old or so... haha...
Will be uploading some of the more recent pictures online since my friends are also captured in them... but for the few childhood photos that I had, will only show it to the guests of my wedding.. which I am not sure when... hehe..

Crazy about Serials...

I juz finished the TVB Serial 溏心風暴之家好月圓

The show is really nice. I like to watch such shows when they talked about kinship and what can happen within a big family. Some of the characters may seem to be not from this world, whether they are either too good or evil to be real... But I can tell you from my personal experiences that such characters do exist within a family.

This is the song from the show that I liked a lot:

林峰 - 爱不疚 (溏心風暴之家好月圓插曲)

有多少愛可以重來

Ok, I am going to post some music videos again... Someone who read my (hardly updated) blog commented why I like to post such things? Nothing much to do with my life what? Well, that shows you dun know me well only... I listen to songs that reflect my feelings at the point of time.... :)

This is another 2 versions of this song that I liked alot. But I need to put a disclaimer first... The meaning of this song is talking about how we regret not holding on to the lost love. It must be written by someone who had seen his/her ex with a new love. This kind of feeling is will only come when you still do not have a new love in your life... So this feeling is not not a true reflection of how much you love your ex... hehe...





And the original Faye Wong's Cantonese version. This is a better reflection of how one should feel when love is lost... Don't hold on to it... :)

Gaining & Losing

Most of us may not realise it but everytime we gain something, we lose something...

And a lot of time, it is about what we are willing to lose in order to gain. Most people will choose to retain and yet wanna gain... The world does not work that way...

The song I will sing next time I go Karaoke

The first time I heard this song was when I attended a friend's birthday at a KTV. I liked this song immediately but I was too high to rem the name... haha... Now that I know liao, I am going to sing it the next time I go to karaoke... :)

阿穆隆 许茹芸 男人.女人

To be or not to be...

How hard it is for us to let go of something we hold dearly once?
Like a cigarette for a smoker? Or a pet dog for dog lovers? Or simply that someone who had been, maybe even will be, someone whom you feel dearly for?

Now, it can be the love for a family member. It can be the love for a best friend. It can be the love for a partner... Whichever it is, it is not easy to let go.

I had figured out long ago why is it so difficult to let go of things? Because, we are very afraid that if we let it go, there will be this humongous void in our life that we do not know what to fill with... It is like cutting a pound of flesh from your body. Or it can be more painful than that...

Some people cannot take the agony and thus choose to escape... Maybe by getting drunk all the time, maybe by shutting oneself out from everything, maybe even by ending his/her life.

But then for most people, we simply adapt to the void and start to fill it with something else... Maybe pick up a sport? Maybe find a new pet? Maybe get a new partner? Maybe even turn gay... hahaha...

But there's something else that is very scary, especially when you are going through the "withdrawal syndrome". Thoughts such as maybe we should get back together. But then if we get back, what's next? Fight again? What happen if I decide to turn back, he/she already turned to someone else and there is no more room for me?

My personal opinion is, if both parties cannot sort out the fundermental reasons why we ended up in such a state, it is never wise to even think about getting back together. At least, both parties must agree that we want to work it out. And not just get back together and pretend that things are back to normal... That's is the most dangerous situation. The next time you fall out, it will be uglier.

And what's with your ex-partner finding someone else? Remember this, there's always someone out there that is better than you and more suitable for him/her. In the same manner, there is always someone out there that is better than him/her. For those of us in the corporate world, it is the same situation. Does it mean if you do not get a promotion, it means you are no good? More likely, it is because there is someone better than you. There's nothing to argue or even worry about... Why not focus on making the effort to do all your can while you are in it rather than start thinking why your effort is not reciprocated?

Even if you really have to let go... just be glad that you have been there... And start to look forward... maybe to the same thing but this time round, get things done right...