Have you?

Have you kissed someone you should not kiss?
Have you touched someone you should not touch?
Have you missed someone you should not miss?
Have you loved someone you cannot love?
Have you?

Now, before anyone reading this think I am writing about incest or some twisted relationship, I am nowhere near there... :)

I am refering to temptations. We have all read in the papers about some of relationships, that through mortal eyes, are never meant to be.

Teacher with a Student;
Doctors with a Patient;
Police with a Thief;
Politician with a Hooker;
President with an Intern!

The list just goes on and on... However, one of the most common "forbidden" relationship happens every minute, everyday, everywhere...

Attached guy with his lover(s)
Attached girl with her lover(s)
Married man with his lover(s)
Married woman with her lover(s)
Married man with Married woman, but they are not married to one another...

So what propel the individuals to be engaged in such a relationship? Well, there are 1001 reasons, listing just a few below...

"I am Lonely"
"I need more sex partner(s)"
"I love his/her money"
"I just wanna have some fun but I still love my husband/wife"
"I want revenge"

What I believe is everything happens for a reason. There may be more than 1 reason in certain cases but there is always a motive in the first place, be it intentionally or unintentionally..

Gone are the days whereby guys are the usual suspects for starting such a relationship. There is a fair share of ladies these days who are fully capable of initiating such a relationship. And it always takes 2 hands to clap.

However, the market place for such relationship defies common law of economics where demand lead to supply. Base on my own assessment, it is the supply that led the demand in such a market place. i.e. more and more people are willing to commit in such a relationship for whatever reasons leading more players in the market.

Not so virgin post...

Hiya!

Ok I have decided to move to this place since I need to pay Friendster to have the same features provided here...

Anyway, for my not so virgin post, I would like like to share this very beautiful song that my friend sang for his wife on their wedding night.

And believe it or not, I would very much like a ger to sing this for me one fine day... someone who can truly accept me for what I am, and not expect me to be:

• Francis Chua - The "Not so Player"
• Francis Chua - The Domesticated Animal
• Francis Chua - The Changed Man

I am Francis Chua, the same Francis Chua she falls in love with from the very first day... :)



Don't go changing, try and please me
You never let me down before
Don't imagine you're too familiar
And I don't see you anymore

I would not leave you in times of trouble
We never could have come this far
I took the good times, I'll take the bad times
I'll take you just the way you are

Don't go trying some new fashion
Don't change the color of your hair
You always have my unspoken passion
Although I might not seem to care

I don't want clever conversation
I never want to work that hard
I just want someone that I can talk to
I want you just the way you are.

I need to know that you will always be
The same old someone that I knew
What will it take till you believe in me
The way that I believe in you.

I said I love you and that's forever
And this I promise from the heart
I could not love you any better
I love you just the way you are

I don't want clever conversation
I never want to work that hard
I just want someone that I can talk to
I want you just the way you are.